G-spot is often presented as the holy grail of orgasm. However, do not feel pressured to hang up just on one hot spot.
It is no big deal that you have never had a G-spot orgasm. You should know by now that everyone’s orgasm is different. So, explore every spot you want, or don’t. You should do whatever feels good for you. It is your pleasure and your body.
What is the G-spot?
You have probably heard that this spot is the key to reaching a mind-blowing vaginal orgasm. Well, it is complicated.
There have been some debates among sex experts whether the G-spot even exists as an actual physical spot in the body. In a study, researchers tried to find this special part, but they didn’t find evidence of it.
So, instead of being a separate spot in the vagina, the G-spot is part of the clitoral network of pleasure spots. When you stimulate this spot, you are stimulating just part of your clitoris, which is much larger than we thought.
Also, this region varies from woman to woman, which explains why it is often difficult to locate the G-spot. But, once you stimulate, it can help women achieve vaginal orgasm and even cause female ejaculation (squirting).
How can you find it?
It is not on a map of the body, but it is not impossible to find it. It is easier to find your G-spot through self-exploration. Relax and start massaging the opening to your vagina. You should reach into the vagina, but not very deep, and curl your fingers up toward the stomach. Move your fingers in a “come here” motion.
You can use a toy beside your fingers. Don’t try to hit a specific spot, but find what feels the most pleasurable for you in that region. Focus your attention on the area instead of moving in and out.
You should know that not all women will find the G-spot stimulation satisfactory, and that is okay. But masturbation is okay and it can be healthy for any relationship. You should explore your preferences, and then instruct your partner on what turns you on during sex.
Best sex positions for stimulating the G-spot
If you want to experience G-spot stimulation during sex, some positions work best. Positions that allow the woman more control over her movements can help her figure out what types of stimulation she enjoys most. Here are three sex positions to try:
Cowgirl
You should climb on top of your partner and straddle him. This position will allow you to control the depth, rhythm, and angle of penetration. Move back and forth to stimulate the region against your vaginal wall.
Doggy style
This sex position is also a great way to achieve deeper penetration. You can easily vary the angle to hit the G-spot. During penetration, push or hips backward or lean down on your forearms to change the angle until you find the perfect position.
Closed missionary position
This sex position allows for greater stimulation of your G-spot without the depth of penetration. His legs should straddle yours, allowing a tight squeeze. This penetration does not hit as deep, but it creates more increased friction against your G spot. This can be perfect for reaching orgasm!