There are many ways to try prostate play, whether using anal toys or fingering, but there is also pegging and if you are into it, go for it!
Do you know those wonderful, deep, mind-blowing orgasms when you hit your G-spot? Well, people with penises have a G-spot. Yes, we are talking about the prostate. Stimulating their prostates can produce amazing sensations and orgasm.
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Okay, what exactly is pegging?
Pegging is when anyone without a penis wears a harness with a strap-on dildo and penetrates their partner anally. Don’t worry – the dildo can be as small or big as you want! So, you need to give your penis-having partner a butt action!
And yes, people of all gender identities and sexualities can use a strap-on, but pegging usually refers to a male being penetrated by a female. If your partner is a man, and you’re a woman, you should know that pegging is still heterosexual sex.
If you are ready for a change in your sex life, experimenting with pegging will change the ways in how both of you give and receive pleasure. However, pegging won’t change your sexual orientations. So, no, pegging, or anal penetration in general, is not “gay.”
How to find your partner’s prostate
To pleasure your partner’s prostate, first, you need to find it. The prostate is the male G-spot, and you can read everything about it here. And like the female G-spot, the male G-spot responds to firm but gentle pressure, massage, and come-hither movement.
It is like a kidney-bean-sized gland, located inside your partner’s anus about 2 to 3 inches in on the front side of their body. It is easier to find it if your partner is turned on because it swells and becomes firmer during arousal.
Pegging means power
With pegging, you can play with gender roles and power. It is an amazing sexual play in deliciously wrong space. The taboos that surround this sex act make for more satisfaction. You should know that penetration will be vulnerable, especially for a man who is unfamiliar with the feeling.
Many women enjoy the power of being in charge of the thrusting. It can feel scary and intimidating at first, but being the one who is controlling the sex can be hot! Pegging will give you the power of controlling pleasure and pace. You will experience a whole other emotional experience, and so will be your partner.
What will you need for successful pegging?
Making sure you get the right equipment is important for having a wonderful first experience. Here are the things you will need:
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- Dildos. Choose dildos that will fit your partner’s ass. It is better to start smaller and move up with time. You need to make this a positive experience for your partner, and not a painful one. Also, you should choose soft silicone.
- A solid strap on harness. You should get a quality, two-strap harness. Well, nobody wants a floppy dildo, right? Or you can choose an underwear harness or a corset type.
- Lube. Okay, we think this one is obvious. Lubrication is the most important since the ass is not self-lubricating. Choose a water-based lubricant, which is good for pegging or other toy plays, as well.