Not only car sex is a great change of pace, but you can also easily mix things up by restraining your partner or yourself with a seatbelt. 

Now, as an adult, your car is like a bonus place to have sex when you already have a hot sex life that has seen a kitchen, a couch, maybe even a roof of some building. See what we mean?

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In the movies, car sex always looks hot! We have seen the passionate, steamy, hand-against-the-window car sex. . And, the participants look super comfortable. But, is it always like that? We all know the answer. But, if the thought of getting sweaty with your partner in the car sounds hot to you, we have some tips to make the car sex more comfortable and practical for both of you. 

Ladies, wear a dress or a skirt 

We know that being naked is hot, but so is not getting arrested. In this way, you won’t have to worry about the curiosity of passersby if any when you are parked.  A flowy dress or skirt will hide your business. Also, you get great, easy access.  For obvious reasons, make sure you do this at night. Also, it is more romantic with the stars and moon setting the mood. No one can resist the hot moonlit glow on the body. 

Choose comfortable positions 

There is not a lot of space, so you have to make good use of that little space you do have. Our advice is to recline the seat back as far as you can. It is best if your back seat lay down. Also, you can try having sex in the trunk or even on the bed of the truck for more comfort.

Have a lot of lube with you

You won’t be able to try some interesting positions or have long foreplay, so you need to have plenty of lubrication on hand. Don’t forget to lay a blanket on the seat, because chances are big that you will spill everywhere from the lube.

Buckle up

You can easily throw some BDSM play in there. All cars come with bondage accessories. Yes, we are talking about the seat belts. You or your partner should sit in the passenger seat and then just click the belt into place. Order your partner to lift the hands over the head, and use whatever you have to bind them to the headrest. Then, you can have your wicked way with them.

Spoon sex is the best car sex 

The most comfortable back seat option is spoon sex, not missionary since it can feel claustrophobic. Also, no one will be able to see you in this position. You should just move the front seats forward and your seatbacks upright. The man should lie across the back seat and you in front of him, so your back is pressed against his chest. 

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Have solo sex

For all our single girls and boys out there: Car sex doesn’t have to involve a partner. If you want to get away from the world, put on your favorite songs or porno, and take the time to enjoy yourself.

Experimentation is a normal part of being a sexual being. Here are the ultimate sex tips to help you understand what works in the bedroom. 

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Tell your partner what turns you on 

You should know by now that better communication means better sex. Communication doesn’t just include dirty talk. Telling your partner what you like and don’t is informative and instructional, no matter how much you think you know your bodies and preferences in bed. 

If your partner is doing something you are into, tell them, instead of relying on noises or gestures. And if it is something you don’t like, tell that and guide them in the right direction. Do you want to try a different position or angle? Suggest one. Take action.

Watch porn with your partner

Watching porn together is one of the best sex tips you will get! Porn will turn both of you on, so you will want to shut it off and have some action in the bedroom. It can also give you inspiration for new moves, or just bring you closer, and make you even closer. 

Give yourself enough time to get aroused

Science says that your body needs 45 minutes to get properly turned on. So, next time you should slow things down and enjoy the foreplay fully. The more turned on you are, the more mind-blowing the sex will be. 

Use your tongue during sex as well

Your tongue isn’t just for the foreplay. Your tongue is strong, textured, and self-lubricating, so don’t forget to use it! The tongue can be very powerful during sex. From the dirty talk, licking, kissing, whatever you want – your tongue will make wonders. Your partner will enjoy it!

Experiment with props and toys

It is advisable for couples, especially long-term couples, to enhance their sexual experience by shopping for sex products and toys together. You can buy whatever you want – just do the shopping together. Choose blindfolds, body paint, massage oils, different sex toys – the options are limitless.

Also, if you want a hot atmosphere, don’t forget to add music as sexy background noise. You can massage one another. Obviously, the massage needs to have a happy end. You will feel your libido rise after the massages. 

Focus on quality

Stop focusing on quantity – there is no right amount of sex per week! Try having quality sex, which will make both of you satisfied. More sex does not mean better sex – don’t forget that. You could have sex once a week and be satisfied with your sex life.  

Don’t worry if you and your partner are not screwing like rabbits. Having better sex pays off in the long run. Your job is to focus on how much pleasure you both are experiencing during sex.

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Try sex games

There are a lot of sex games you could play with your partner that will turn you both on. You don’t necessarily need a special card deck or a board. Make your own games if you like – just two willing participants are enough for having a fun time.

However, creating comfortable conditions for masturbation can be daunting. That is why we’ll help to improve your masturbation sessions. 

First, you should know that your masturbating habits are normal, and we completely encourage them. Now, the great news: You can do whatever you want since masturbation is all about you. You should only be concerned about pleasing yourself. Remember that the world is your oyster, and you have to find out what suits you best.

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Okay, here is how to have the best sex with you. 

Be an attentive lover to yourself as you are to your partner

You deserve this! Treat yourself attentively as you treat your partner. Don’t just do the things mechanically, but enjoy yourself, and try to learn what you like the most. When it comes to the atmosphere and setting, it depends on what turns you on.

Give yourself space to discover all your preferences. See if you like with lights on, or you just prefer turning off the lights and going for calming candles instead. Does music or maybe a particular song make you horny? It’s all about practice and trying new things. Also, decide what (if anything) to wear. You should consider what type of clothing makes you feel sexy. Put on some lingerie or a costume if you are playing with fantasy. Or if you want to focus on being comfortable, put on some boxer shorts or nothing at all.

Don’t get stuck in a routine during your masturbation sessions 

Just like your sex life with your partner, getting stuck in a routine while masturbating can turn your magical experience into little more than a chore. Don’t fly solo just because you have to. If you feel exhausted, you shouldn’t try to please you, because you’ll feel like you are doing something just because you have to. 

And when you do decide to please yourself, try new things and settings whenever you can! Have fun with yourself. You shouldn’t just focus on the ‘finish line,’ but you should enjoy all the amazing sensations your body can feel. Take time to get in touch with your physical self. Of course, orgasms are great, but that they aren’t the only good thing about touching yourself. By learning what you like, you will have better sex in the future. 

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Use some accessories if you feel like it 

Then there’s the matter of accessories. Above all, we recommend using lube. Whether you decide using toys or hands, the lube is going to add great sensation and make everything more pleasurable and slicker. 

As far as sex toys go, you should choose the one that suits best your personal needs. If you know that you need a lot of stimulation during your masturbation sessions, you should choose a wand-style, powerful vibrator. And if you want an internal stimulation, you should opt for a firm dildo that will help you find or hit the G-spot or prostate.