Do you want to try some of the hottest sex trends for this year? Do you need some inspiration on how to improve things in the bedroom?

Well, look no more! You have come to the right place. Here are the things you need to know to have the best sex sessions yet! 

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People will use more sex toys 

So, you should, too. People will start buying more sex toys than ever before in 2021. We can predict that there will be many first-time buyers this year. Are you asking why? Well, in 2020, many couples have been forced apart, and people who have relied on their partners to satisfy their sexual needs chose to be more autonomous. But this will continue in the New Year, as well. Even when reunited, couples will use the perks of the sex toys.  

People will start experimenting with their sexuality

The 2020 pandemic made us realize that life is short. Some people decided to end toxic relationships, others realized that they are not just with the wrong partner, and reflected on their sexual identities.

So, this year, more people may test out being with different people, because time is short! This can come in different sizes and shapes, a guy on guy, girl on girl, and a little bit of both. 

BDSM is one of the biggest sex trends 

With boredom from lockdown, a big sex trend for the New Year will be BDSM. For those who don’t know what BDSM is – it encompasses bondage and discipline, sadism and masochism, domination and submission. Many people in lockdown have used their extra time to escape reality. And what better way for that than to try new things in the bedroom?

People have become more adventurous and kinkier, and we believe they will continue to do so in 2021, as well. Many people have tried anal sex, pegging, and BDSM products. Pegging – when usually the woman wears a strap-on dildo to penetrate her partner – was one of the hottest sex trends in 2020.

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Sexual mindfulness is the new thing

Let’s be honest – we all have been stressed in 2020. Hopefully, this year will be different, and that is why sexual mindfulness will be a hot trend. Being sexually mindful is an amazing way to switch off the stress and reach your full pleasure potential. 

So, we advise you to switch from a goal-oriented mindset to a pleasure-oriented one. Your focus should stay on the sensations of the moment, instead of focusing on reaching an orgasm. We know that is hard to be fully present during masturbation or sex, but practicing sexual mindfulness will improve your ability to switch off. Take time to slowly explore your body, concentrate on the moment-to-moment sensations, and fulfill every need your body has.

One of the easiest sex trends – music experimentation 

This sex trend is so simple! In 2021, having sex with your favorite song is a top new must-try. With sex and love at the center of most songs, you will instantly become hornier. So, we advise you to try this trend now – alone or with your partner. Listening to your favorite songs is an easy way to set the mood.

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Fast ways to turn yourself on

Okay, so sometimes you just need to turn yourself on fast. We don’t always have time to prime our bodies for a long, sensual masturbation session.

How many times does your body ask you for an immediate orgasm? The answer is many times.  And girl, you should know that your body should never be denied its desires. Yes, we all prefer face masks, oils, steamy novels, a vibrator, but it is what it is. So, when you do not have time to commit to the long masturbating experience, it does not mean you have to deprive your body of an orgasm. It just means you need our horny hacks. 

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We will help you to learn how to turn yourself on fast! However, that doesn’t mean that it will be less enjoyable or fun than a full-on masturbating session. 

Get undressed in front of a mirror

Nothing is sexier than you! You just need to turn yourself on by seeing how hot you are. Also, you can lounge around in your hot lingerie when you are alone at home. Put on your sexiest, laciest piece, and enjoy your time. 

Activate your senses to turn yourself on 

Your senses are directly related to your libido, duh. You should eat some aphrodisiacs (like nuts or chocolate), play some music that makes you feel like a sex goddess, set the mood by adjusting the lighting right, put some sensual sheets like silk, and spritz the perfume that makes you horny.

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Create a sexual fantasy 

We know that sex scenes on TV are great, and porn is even better. But you will turn yourself on quickly if you create your sexual fantasy because it is yours! And you decide what happens there. The mental images of your sexual fantasy will get you where you want to be fast! 

Focus on your breath to turn yourself on fast 

By focusing on your breath, you will easily get out of your head. Close your eyes and breathe slowly and deeply. You can also try different breathing patterns – like, holding your breath in for five seconds and see what feels best for you.

Compile a stash of erotic clips, images, and/or stories

You should have a private file on your phone – compiling many things that will turn you on immediately. Put on your earbuds and listen to hot stories or sounds while you scroll through pictures and clips that do it for you.

Take a hot shower 

Okay, we all have time for a shower, right? So, when you are already wet, slippery, and soupy, glide your fingers over your most sensitive areas. Use your fingers, washcloth, or sponge to turn yourself on. You do not even have to masturbate yet, but focus on touching yourself sensitively. Caress your thighs, chest, nipples, neck, and all those small erogenous zones you don’t pay much attention to when you masturbate. 

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Girl, stop playing innocent and do it. You know it will work.

It has been said that sex is like pizza: even bad pizza is better than no pizza at all. But this is not right! No one is supposed to constantly endure things they hate in bed! 

Finding out what your partner hates in bed takes time, and most people have to gain trust before they will discuss their intimate desires. However, these are some things that most women hate in bed.

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Women hate when you skip foreplay

Okay, guys, 10 seconds of kissing is not foreplay! No, neither is a short fumble around her breasts. Wait, save your eye rolls and groans. Women don’t ask for an hour-long, hot massage (not that they mind!). It takes time for women to warm up and for their bodies to respond to yours. It takes more for them to get aroused, regardless of their age. Simply sticking it in looks amateur at best and selfish at worst. You will make your partner feel more objectified than wanted. 

Trying to last for hours

Tell us, do you want a masseur massaging one spot for half an hour? Well, that is how women feel when they have a marathon intercourse session. If you are still going after 12 minutes (which according to many studies is the perfect length of time for a session) check if your partner is still connecting.

Women hate when you insist on them to orgasm 

Sometimes it is clear she is not going to orgasm. Just read the room! We don’t say that the reason is you; there can be many reasons that have nothing to do with you. Don’t get offended if she cannot. And more importantly, don’t insist! 

Giving her the silent treatment

You can be a hot guy who is amazing with his hands and everything, but if you are silent as a log, you are not as good as you think you are. Your partner will feel like you are bored having sex with her. Can you dance with no music? Well, that is like having sex with a mute. Maybe dirty talk is not your thing, but it won’t kill you if you give her a moan or two. Women want to know they are pleasing you, and that you are still breathing. 

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Women hate when you refuse to use condoms

IT seems like everyone is having sex without condoms nowadays. It is kind of scary. We are all for casual sex, but not for casually contracting an STD. Don’t try to talk her out if your partner insists that you wear a condom. It is rude and inconsiderate! It does not matter if she is on the pill or you just got tested. Women are more physiologically susceptible to STDs than men, and not to mention the risk of unwanted pregnancy. We know that sex feels better without a condom, but life feels better without herpes. Also, do not try to get it in raw just for the beginning. Last we checked – chlamydia does not adhere to a ten-second rule.