No other sexual phenomenon is still as taboo as female ejaculation. Even in this modern world, the concept of squirting is often met with skepticism.
Female ejaculation. A tsunami of love. Making it rain. Whatever you decide to call it, chances are you have got some questions about squirting. We will start by answering the most pressing one: Yes, it is real.
What is it?
Squirting is sexual applause. It is a physical manifestation of pleasure. Okay, it is the expulsion of fluid during sex from women with a vulva. Squirting exceeds 150ml, and the fluid is clear or yellow, as it contains creatinine, urea, and uric acid. It comes from the bladder.
Although the terms “squirting” and “female ejaculate” are used interchangeably, some people argue they are two different things. When a woman squirts, it is from G-spot stimulation, or G-spot and clitoral dual stimulation.
The ejaculation happens from the prostate – yes, the female prostate exists. The ejaculation is less than 1ml of milky liquid. This female ejaculation is composed the same as the male one, only without the sperm.
How women who squirt feel?
Women who squirt say that the sensation when they come is different from the sensation of when they pee. Also, the consistency, smell, and taste of what comes out are different from the pee.
Women feel like a tickle before they squirt, and the sensation they do while they are squirting is more similar to pushing something out of their vaginal canal. However, the sensation is intense. Usually, women orgasm and if they or their partner keeps touching their G-spot, then they squirt. Other women feel like they are going to wet the bed, and while it is happening; they feel like they are having a wet orgasm.
Relaxation is the key to squirting
Well, there are two types of squirting: the one requires pressure on the bladder neck and G-spot simultaneously to reach a pleasurable climax, while the other happens “autonomously”. Yes, literally the woman is turned on, having sex, and can have a blast, so to speak.
Every woman with a vulva can squirt if they have a strong pelvic floor and a good relationship with their vagina. However, they must be relaxed, and confident to let it go. Relaxation really is the key when it comes to squirting.
This does not mean you will find it easy. Some people try a combination of penetration techniques, angles, sex toys, and they cannot achieve a squirt. There are no rules – everybody is different, but pleasure should be your first goal rather than squirting.
Here is how to make squirting happen
Once you are in the mood for some fun, you can try if you can squirt. In those moments, you should know that the more aroused you are the better. Pushing the body past what you think is capable of it is important as well. If something feels unknown or different, lean into that.
Explore your body, masturbate a lot. G-spot stimulation is crucial to squirting. Play around and see what works for you. Get yourself turned on without the pressure to achieve a new sexual skill. Stimulating your G-spot, knowing what sensations come, will help you improve your practice. We are not going to lie – clit suction toys will be of big help to you.